Guys: We know we get girls flowers on Valentine's Day because we are forced. We know that if we don't follow the tradition of buying our companions of the opposite sex flowers and/or chocolate (don't get me started on chocolate), we run the risk of getting the cold shoulder. None of us want the cold shoulder. For those of us that have been unfortunate enough to experience such a frigid (no pun intended) act, we can tell you we never want to go through it again. Most of us are not strong enough to stand up to the powers that be (Hallmark) and refuse to waste money on such a pointless day. Ladies, the excuse "It's a special day to show your love for us" holds no ground whatsoever. If we are with you, in a relationship, then we definitely show how special you are to us everyday. We listen, we cuddle, we console, we laugh, we get you cookies when you have a bad day; and now you want flowers?!?!?! Granted, like I've said before, its a nice gesture, but it shouldn't be expected just because. If we love/like you, then we love/like you everyday. End of story.
Now don't get a brotha wrong here. I'm not saying we shouldn't get girls flowers. It's a good move because it shows how much you care. Ain't nothin' wrong with that. I'm just sayin', like a certain dude from Illadelphia that lives above me, we shouldn't be afraid to say in such eloquent rhetoric, "Valentine's Day is dumb, dude."
"Speech is my hammer, bang the world into shape, now let it fall...
-Mos Def
-Illipsis
a.k.a. Brett Clarke
2 comments:
wow this is true but messed up at the same time. i mean yea girls shouldnt demand flowers or candy just because its valentine's day but at the same time u should kno that ya girl is gonna want something even if you take out to dinner or u gettin dem buns at night layin the smoochies on her. either way is not only her day but yours too and u should share it together.
Yes, carnations are a superficial means in which people show their love for one another...however, you ought to consider how often people neglect those whom they care about. Take a look at Mother's Day for example...shouldn't we show love and appreciation for our mothers everyday? Yes. But do we? It's easy to argue that guys show how special girls are to them everyday...that's not always the case, though. Holidays like Valentine's Day might seem superficial as I've said, but they also call you to stop and think about and/or do something nice for that special someone =]
...speaking from a female's point of view, Valentine's Day is a holiday tradition that has been part of the American culture for so long, it's almost impossible not to expect something whether it be cheap flowers or a corny Hallmark card.
Anywho, I don't think you should turn sour at the thought of Valentine's Day because essentially you're expressing your affection towards someone special...you know, the person who gives you butterflies and makes your heart race with just a simple kiss. [corny, but you get the point] I think the idea behind Valentine's Day is super, but people tend to get lost in materialism, again forgetting what's really important.
I meant to comment a while ago but never got to it.
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PS- It's nice to have a sweet guy bring you cookies when you're sad (wink, wink), but that's not what counts at the end of the day. I'd rather him take the time to listen, hear me out, understand, etc. before buying those flowers and what have you. It's a nice gesture, but not at all needed.
i'm done. seriously.
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byeeeeeeeee
[hope this didn't put you to sleep]
xx_"Nunu"
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